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Continuing the theme from yesterday about burnout, it is important to identify the signs and symptoms of burnout. This Wikipedia article on burnout is chock full of good details, and I advise you to look there for reference as I talk about each symptom. As I go through each phase of burnout, I detail what I unknowingly did in that phase, in the hope that someone out there can recognize what they are currently doing and prevent it from happening further. I feel quite exposed writing about all of this, mainly because of the feeling that people will see me as fallible but it is all part of the process of learning and growing. ...

Being the 10th anniversary of when this story took place, I would like to tell a story today. It is one of the many stories that I tell each of my student mentees each year. At first it may seem like I am airing dirty laundry, but the purpose of this parable is that the reader can hopefully steer clear of the mistakes I made once upon a time. I was working at the main IT department for UBC (then called ITServices, it is now called UBCIT) as a software developer. It was my first job after graduating from UBC (I previously held the job before graduation, but that’s beside the point). I had been working at UBC for 2 years before a new project was started: Campus Wide Login (CWL). At the time, this project was revolutionary. It was a single sign-on (SSO) system that would obsolete the various usernames and passwords around the campus, and centralize it all into one system. The design was based on Kerberos which is a ticketing system, very similar to today’s OAuth2 system. ...

For this website I decided to use a VPS instead of using a shared host or a PaaS like Heroku. I figured that I need to keep my system administrator skills up to date, and there is no better way to do this (as someone who works from home) than to run everything myself. Running a VPS is also much more affordable than using Heroku, so that’s another win. As for shunning shared hosts, the reason I didn’t go down that route is simply because I’m tired of using cPanel or any UI, because I am much more comfortable on a command-line interface. Oddly enough, I find that cPanel (and its ilk) make things more difficult for me to understand, possibly because I overthink how to perform a simple task. ...

As my daughter, Elle, crosses the 7-month threshold of her life, I feel the need to write down my experiences thus far being both an entrepreneur and a father. First and foremost, Elle is the boss. Although it may seem like I am the one who determines when she eats and sleeps, she does so only because she does not really care. I am constantly at her beck and call any time of the day, which plays into the first part of the entrepreneurial experience. ...

When I got married I wanted to wear a titanium ring, similar to the one here. The first thing you will notice is that the price of the ring is around $50, which means it’s basically worthless. However, this is exactly what I intended when I bought it. I had four requests for a wedding band: cheap, tough, light, and simple. I have never understood the urge for someone to purchase an expensive wedding band on their finger. I’ve heard people mention how much it costs, or was appraised for, but all of that tells me that these people have one foot out of the door in their marriage. The value of a ring should not be determined by someone outside of the family (i.e. an appraiser) because there is no way to quantify sentimental cost. Instead, a ring simply has replacement value and yet, if someone’s $1,000 platinum wedding band was lost and then replaced, it is still not the same wedding band that they were married in, so what is the point? The reason I wanted a ring that was virtually worthless is that the ring is purely a symbol for the marriage, and it is that symbol that adds value to the ring, not the particular type of atoms that make it up. ...

In order to fully attain my merit badge for renaissance man, I am going to state a few goals of mine that will be started this year and may take until the end of next year to complete (mainly because I have to care for my daughter, which is a full-time job). These goals are in varying disciplines, but fulfill things that I have always wanted to learn as well as something that will help me in life (sooner or later). I don’t mind learning information that I may never use in life* but if I am going to spend money on learning I am going to ensure I get a positive ROI from it. These goals also dovetail into the new business opportunies that my company, JustPlainSimple Technologies Inc. would like to explore. In no particular order, here they are: ...